tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779390.post442664819605620875..comments2023-11-02T06:44:26.914-04:00Comments on Yusef's Journal: A nurse....a lessonSTAGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06198646624631167489noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779390.post-86053187562528528192012-09-11T16:57:00.557-04:002012-09-11T16:57:00.557-04:00He merely preceeded you on the road by a few years...He merely preceeded you on the road by a few years. Give him time to prepare for your arrival, clean up the place a bit, arrange the surprise party with all your relatives and deceased pets.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14680700783923382336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779390.post-57374197968379646712012-08-24T08:24:21.586-04:002012-08-24T08:24:21.586-04:00I am going to add here what mu husband said before...I am going to add here what mu husband said before he was killed by medical negligence in 2007 - he had been a quadriplegic since a work accident in 1982 when he was 32...<br />Maybe he was different but he so often expressed to me how good his life had been, how lucky we were, that he had no regrets whatsoever - he looked long into my eyes as I sat beside him while the nurses and docs neglected and killed him (I am a bit angry here but not with your palliative nurse - she no doubt has done a good job...Don was treated as a guinea pig for their "research" and finally when they spat him out for euthanasia all gilded with the Palliative care nurses who were not to blame...<br /><br />in amongst all of this he had no regrets, nothing undone, no child left untended to and we were solid... see www.withoutduecare.com.au just to say here not all people who are about to die have regrets...some are clear eyed and bushy tailed and looking into the light<br />its important to me to express this...as I guess I am still fighting authorities who I know were responsible for my husband's premature deathMiddle Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09962830669606760640noreply@blogger.com